Today is an age of alternatives. Even against the backdrop of tradition, romance has not been spared from practical considerations in finding the best. So rethink your conservatism even as you pop the question. Who would have thought that to profess your promise of a lifetime you no longer have to have a diamond ring at all? Yes, you can get engaged even if you can’t afford a diamond ring: because the language of love is still the same language spoken by garnet engagement rings.

You could conjure up the same romantic moment—quite affordably—having in your little box, your next best bet. Slip a garnet ring for that nontraditional avowal of love and get engaged just as well. At least, you don’t have to fool yourself in make-believe by settling for a look-alike or imitation just to get the crystal-clear sparkle on her finger for that very special moment.

Remember, the significance of the act is the gesture beyond the price
tag—the ritual symbolism of proposition with a ring. The ring itself is the ultimate symbol of eternal loyalty and undying love—and the red garnet of the love-steeped beauty in your relationship.

And if you’re still unconvinced—believe it or not—the Queen Mother Queen Elizabeth, as well as the late Princess Di, got sapphire engagement rings; and, Sarah Ferguson, got one with ruby. The next closest thing—without leaving you penniless—is red garnet.

Of the many colored gems around, red stones are the most reflective of true love. Red stones symbolize the heart, embody the passion, and radiate the frenetic zest for life. If you’re beyond ruby, go for red spinel; if you’re still far off, red tourmaline; and, if you’re really hard up, red garnet is your best friend.

Get real! Say what you really feel most truthfully by going for real gems. If your love is real don’t settle for less and get a hold of that s just-as-precious red garnet ring on.